Words from our SatguruMA Sadhvi Trideviji on the occasion of the death of a devotees's relative:
- MATAJI: “…this is the time to cry, cry as much as you can, life is unfortunately and happily like this because that's how we learn to value priorities, and moments, because they are not infinite, so let's live the best here now. The certainty that life gives us is that. And this is so that we can value each step and each shared moment. And remember that a dead or distant body can never separate us from the people we love.
Nothing can separate us from the loved one:
A dead body cannot separate you from the loved one.
When there is no body present, he/she only in the heart remains, only everything that that being gave us remains and makes us laugh and cry in the heart.
So we are never, never alone, we always carry the ones we love in our hearts. Take that into account.
And nothing, nothing that they have given us of laughter and tears nobody can take away.
So let's celebrate life, because the life that chooses us here and now is not afraid to live.”.
Jai Ho Adi Shakti Ma Ki
❧ AUM BAGAVATÉ TRIDEVIYE NAMAHA ❧
Self-Love: 'SELF PERCEPTION' in the TATri VIDYA:
“True love, what hurts, more than hurts...
What makes the mind suffer is lack of love...
But NOT the lack of love of another one towards you, the lack of love from you to yourself.
When you have self-love and respect yourself, you love yourself enough not to need the other one to love you.
Then the relationships are of complete beings with other complete beings.
Love is preserving without trying to possess, even the appearance of the other.
Be on the lookout for romantic rhetoric with spiritualized background that trap you in self-pity, in suffering, in constant victimization, and it keeps you far from taking charge of your emotions.
It's not the other one really, it's what you do with what you live internally.
If you connect with what you are feeling inside you will burn the emotion.
And that emotion is going to have to be repeated as many times necessary until you stop focusing on the outside, on what has generated it.
And you focus on living it sincerely.”
JAY HO ADI SHAKTI MA KI.
"Couples are usually couples from other lives who have met again in this one.
We resonate with people through the chakras on an energetic level.
We can have different connections and associations. At the level of the chakras we can have an affinity with a person from the etheric chakra, air, fire, two or three.
And the more connections, the stronger the love that can unite them in this life.
And if there is love that comes from another life, even more so. But there may be couples that you have brought from other lifetimes that come into this one and have no connection. As much to the mental or sexual.
It means that they do not necessarily have to be together, if they are going to continue loving each other, but love does not have to be romantic. It can be from friends, family, siblings.
It doesn't necessarily have to be sexual, but the mind is so stupid that it feels the least bit of connection with another and already believes that it is sexual. And if the other has an attractive body, he kind of runs over the connection and wants to go sexual. And he doesn't understand that he can't have different connections with people and deep love and they don't necessarily need to have a sexual connection".
- MATAJI:
"The conflict between the brothers is caused by the parents.
BEWARE! They are not guilty, but repeat patterns, or have not had siblings.
Parents generate conflicts without conscience, or because they have not known how to manage the limits between their children.
Each son has his space, his place and where the right of one ends it's when the other one's begins. (Humans).
Understand that we as brothers come to accompany us. Beyond the roles we occupy on this earth, our planetary human condition is that of brothers.
At the planet level “WE ARE CHILDREN OF THE SAME EARTH SHELTERED BY THE SAME HEAVEN”.
So our condition is that of brothers.
1) Understand that we are brothers.
2) That we are here to complement each other.
3) Try to observe our differences and grow with them.
4) Know that we are the product of a psychophysical reality and that we have survived that reality.
Each one has suffered and felt within his own emotional possibility. And what hurts for one, even though another has more resistance, hurts the other something else, and in the end we complement each other and the brothers too.
So even though we may not have affinity at the level of different natures, we must understand that brothers and sisters were born to accompany each other, to complement each other.
But sometimes due to lack of conscience of the parents the brothers become adversaries (Cain and Abel).
Then, it becomes an egoic war that parents don't stop due to lack of understanding or because they like to see them fighting.
They are not forced to share to be his best friend, but for a karmic issue when he needs you, you will have to be. It is not your issue if he does not accompany you, that is his karma. Yours is to accompany him, that's why he's your brother.
No one should invade the reality of the other, but you can access your brother to the extent that he allows you. (No rancor, love him, if he doesn't answer it's your need, not his).
DO NOT INVADE, NOR ALLOW INVADE.
DO NOT IMPOSE YOUR REALITY ON THE REALITY OF THE OTHER. (This would be ego possession).
It's not about being stupid, it's about being fair.
If you respect yourself and respect the difference of the other, the other, if he has a minimum census, will respect your space and difference.
If the other does not have a census (limit), we distance ourselves, but without forgetting that it is our family, that we chose it, it is not by chance, we chose it karmically, so we have to get something out from that connection".
